You are invited
The Men's Connection Code, a transformative space for men seeking to heal, grow, and connect on a deeper level with themselves and others. This cohort is hosted by Hugh Vail and Michael Hall, two men who continue to walk a sovereign path of self-discovery and healing, united by a shared commitment to authenticity, vulnerability, accountability, and reciprocity (AVAR). Growing brotherhood of men from all walks of life...entrepreneurs, artists, veterans (SEALs, Green Berets, Marine Raiders), fathers, and spiritual seekers.
We created this program not just as a platform for teaching, but as a reflection of our personal journeys. Both of us have faced challenges in our relationships with others, and most importantly, with ourselves. The principles of AVAR have been instrumental in repairing those ruptures, not only in our external connections but in our relationship with our own hearts, minds, and souls.
✅ Weekly Zoom Calls – Live 75–90 min sessions (breathwork, teachings, open shares, hot seat coaching)
✅ Private Online Community – Off social media, real connection + accountability
✅ Archive Access – Recordings of past calls & teachings
✅ Retreats & Intensives – Member access to special in-person events
✅ Annual Meet-Up Event – Come together in person to deepen the work
who we are
HUgh vail
Hugh has a unique background in gentling wild mustangs and hosting retreats, where he has taught principles to over 5,000 people develop sovereign relationships with themselves. His personal journey through two high-conflict divorces has given him profound insights into the importance of authentic self connection.
mike hall
Mike is a retired Navy SEAL Team 6 operator, brings a unique perspective on resilience, teamwork, and the power of emotional awareness. After years of high performance leadership in some of the most demanding environments imaginable, Michael has turned his focus inward, recognizing that the most profound battles we face are often with ourselves. His journey from a hyper-masculine, mission driven mindset to one of compassion and inner healing has inspired countless men to break free from their old patterns and embrace true strength.
📜 Manifesto of Purpose & Principles
I. Statement of Purpose
The Mustang Medicine Men’s Group is a trauma-informed brotherhood dedicated to personal transformation, emotional maturity, and embodied leadership.
This is not a support group in the conventional sense - it is a rite of passage. A modern hunt for wisdom, strength, and emotional integrity. We gather not to perform, impress, or fix - but to remember, reclaim, and rebuild.
II. Guiding Philosophy
Our work is grounded in the principles of Compassionate Inquiry (Dr. Gabor Maté) and a commitment to non-pathologizing, curiosity-driven healing.
We recognize that many men carry unspoken wounds, unresolved grief, and patterns of disconnection inherited from family and culture.
We aim to interrupt those patterns, through brotherhood, embodiment, and honest reflection.
We walk the path of integration, restoring connection with self, others, and the greater whole. In doing so, we embody Mustang Medicine ,freedom, sensitivity, power, and trust cultivated through presence.
III. The AVAR Code
We are men of AVAR ,living by:
Authenticity – Speaking truths without pretense or posturing
Vulnerability – Allowing ourselves to be seen in imperfection and humanity
Accountability – Taking responsibility for our choices and their impact
Reciprocity – Give and receive in balance, honoring brotherhood
IV. Core Commitments & Agreements
We Share Wisdom Through Stories – Communicating through lived experience and “I statements”
We Protect Vulnerability – Holding confidentiality as sacred
We Honor Authentic Departure – Respecting when a man chooses a different path
We Live by the Mirror – Viewing every challenge or rupture as reflection and growth opportunity
We Lead by Returning – Like the buffalo hunt, we return carrying wisdom and presence for families, relationships, and communities
V. Rationale & Timeliness
Modern men are often unequipped for the emotional, relational, and spiritual challenges of life.
This group responds to a deep cultural need: to reintroduce men to the art of emotional presence and soul-based leadership.
Healing is not solo work. It is relational, sacred, and urgent.
VI. Call to Participation
If you are seeking:
A deeper connection to your true self
A supportive circle of men
Practical tools for navigating emotions and triggers
A culture of truth, respect, and transformation
A way to lead with presence in family, relationships, and life
👉 We extend this invitation.
Membership is not based on status or perfection.
It is based on willingness to show up honestly and engage.
You do not need to be healed to begin.
You only need to be ready.
VII. Closing Statement
This Manifesto is a living document an evolving expression of our collective intention.
We are not here to be fixed.
Each man is already whole.
Our work is to restore awareness of that wholeness through truth-telling, emotional processing, and sacred remembering.
We believe truth is compassionate, and honesty is not about laying everything out, but about considering the consequences of truth for others.
We do this together.
We do this with reverence.
We do this with fire in our bones and the wisdom of the hunt in our hearts.
We are the Mustang Medicine Men.
We walk as brothers.
We lead by example.
We hunt for what is real and we bring it home.
Membership Investment
Special Annual Membership – $249/year 999$/year
Includes:
Weekly calls
Access to an archive of past calls
Community app
Annual meet-up event
Networking
Emotional and spiritual support